Wednesday..

January 11, 2017...


    Well as of yesterday the asshole donor will get away with putting the 401k debt on his bankruptcy. I don't feel like I should have to pay for a lawyer to fight for a debt that I already won in court and he was court ordered to pay.  The laws make no sense. The judge did nothing to protect me or my kids. I hate the whole thing but still refused to get a lawyer to fight for it again. He still wouldn't pay it and they still wouldn't make him.  Oddly enough I'm now just hoping that Karma really screws him right over and leaves him homeless and broke and it can't happen soon enough. In the meantime I'm going on with my life and starting to try and think of things I can do on the side to make more money so I can get the dam bills paid and have money to do stuff, like fix my car when it breaks, or go out to eat at a real restaurant, buy groceries when I need them and not have to worry where to get the money. I don't know I just think I need to be putting my money else where and not into all these bills.
    My credit is ok at the moment but I need to make sure that I am getting my bills paid in full and on time so that it will climb back up again. Thankfully I have been forced to work my full hours at work and my checks are bigger than they have ever been. I'm also going to cancel a few things so that the increase in my medical isn't as traumatic.   I guess I'm just hoping to make it out of this year with more money than I came into it with. I don't really care what I have to do to get the bills paid I just want it done.  I want to go to San Diego this year on vacation and possibly next year to Disney land and Hogwarts.   I want to see the ocean and sit on the beach with a cocktail.   I want to experience it with my love.   I'm excited.