Sunday

October 9, 2016.....


    My favorite month. I have my house almost decorated although I still need to find more of my outside Halloween decorations. We have our party planned and Halloween night planned as well.
I still have to make my menu and start planning the treats and drinks for the kids. I'm thinking we need some dry ice to make the drink all spooky.   I need to finish up the house but it's coming a long. My love and I still need to get our costumes ready. We have 2 parties to dress up for and I want to be something for couples.  We are thinking he can be a Dr. and I can be a naughty nurse. Then for our Halloween party we can be zombie Dr. and naughty nurse and for Halloween night I can just be a zombie with my little zombie bride. I still need to get her a wig and some flowers for her bouquet.  She'll be adorable!  Wish I could go to her parade this year. It's her last one. I may leave work when the other ladies get there so that I can see her in her last parade.   I've never worked that day but I hear that it is slow.   We shall see. We shall see.
    Once Halloween is over I need to start thinking about the thanksgiving dinners. I'm thinking of having the one with my mom and family on the Saturday before thanksgiving.  Then I'll have a few days before I have to cook another meal.   I don't mind but for whatever reason the one with my mom really stresses me out.  Hopefully it will go as smoothly as it normally does. I'm sure it will because my love always helps me with the food. I love him and am so blessed that he helps me around the house so much.
    Christmas isn't far off either. It was snowing pretty good in park city last week. Only rain here but it's only a matter of time.   It keeps getting down to freezing during the nights and I think the garden is done. There are a lot of blooms but not enough time for them to grow before we are frosting every night.  Today it is warm and sunny with blue skies and a light breeze. The neighborhood is quiet and the band across the street finally took their ugly trailer and went on their way. Guess we are just needing to learn some patience here in my house hold. 
    I have only dusted and made brunch. I ran to the store and put in some laundry but otherwise I have just been watching my love clean the house. He's so different than my experience with men so far. I'm used to them on the computer looking at porn and finding people to cheat on me with on the cheating websites.  My best friend is having the same problem with her now ex husband. Together for 26 years. He's 9 yrs older than her but tells her she's old and boring and he needs more excitement in his life. Goes out and gets him a 1400 dollar apartment because "he can't live in trash" but reality is he's trying to impress someone (even though he says there no one, he's cheated atleast 5 other times and she's always forgiven him. He's also physically and mentally abusive.) he doesn't help her with anything around the house. Nope it's just porn on the computer because he's "bored"  my ex used the same excuse. When I asked him why he wasn't helping me out around the house instead so that we had more time to spend together he said he didn't think about it. ..... men.
     Now that I'm with my love and getting treated right by a real man who knows what to do while he's home and I'm at work I feel like every man should take lessons. He cooks, he cleans, he takes care of me, he loves our family and friends and helps take really good care of our kids.  There is nothing sexier than a man cleaning the house. Serious. Those of you who think you are so bored and your wife or girlfriend so boring because all they do is clean, try turning off the computer and lifting a hand to help her out around the house. I promise you'll both be happier.